Tag: Training

Don’t Make an Enemy of Your Best Friend.

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What is the worst thing a guy can do to his best friend?

Ask him to be the Best Man at his wedding!

He will have to make a speech fitting for the occasion and also find a tuxedo that fits. He will lie awake night after night wondering what to say and worrying about it.  It will totally occupy his mind for weeks. As the time draws near pimples will start sprouting on his face from the stress. Everyone else’s preparations for the wedding seems to be going smoothly except his speech.

Finally the day arrives, the guests look splendid and happy but the best man cannot enjoy himself, it is the worst experience of his life. He is sure he will make a fool of himself, no one will find his jokes funny.

Fight or flight mode kicks in, all the blood drains from his brain to his muscles in readiness to run like hell. His memory, starved of oxygen and blood shuts down and he completely forgets his opening lines. His mouth is so dry not a word can come out. Poor guy!

My advice: Don’t make an enemy of your best friend by asking him to be best man at your wedding unless you provide him with an experienced speaking coach.  If you ask me, I know just the man for the job. He makes speaking in front of an audience an exciting and fun challenge. He can provide your best man with guidance on gathering content, structuring and delivering his speech. And perhaps most importantly, how to make it really captivating by weaving in anecdotes and stories. The audience will love it and he will be the second most popular guy.

For workshops and 1:1 specialised coaching:

martin.jugmans@gmail.com

 

 

Workshop: Storytelling Essentials for Effective Communication.

Workshop: Storytelling Essentials for Effective Communication.

A Practical Workshop on Business Storytelling.

Stories are about life and the life experience. Using stories, anecdotes and vignettes to clarify your message is a way to fast track a positive engagement with your audience. Human brains have a story listening mode, when activated it makes it devilishly easy for a speaker to captivate the attention of an audience. The term used is, “suspension of disbelief”. It is like getting the entire audience into a light hypnotic state in which they become more than ever attentive and receptive. This workshop reveals storytelling essentials and guides participants on a creative journey. Using practical exercises, examples and personalised feedback participants are able to find, structure and deliver a complete story for a specific purpose.  For a qualitative experience the workshop is limited to a maximum of 12 participants.

In Part 2 at a later date attention will be given to creating subtle nuances in a story to increase the depth of audience engagement to make a story sure to stick.

Workshop Part 1.

Purpose:  Find, structure and deliver a story to illustrate a specific message.

What you will learn: Sourcing stories, where to get them. Story construction and flow. Methods to create a spell binding effect. Delivering for maximum impact.

Benefits:  Engage the audience by creating an experience. Inspire, motivate, persuade and leave a lasting impression. Bring ideas and concepts into a form that is easy to understand and remember.

Who should attend: Leaders, Change Makers, Teachers, Trainers, Managers, Facilitators, Conference and Seminar speakers.

When: Friday 10th of November 2017. 14:00-18:00.

Where: ICAB. Rue des Pères Blancs/Witte Patersstraat 4, 1040 Brussels.

What participants say: “Excellent evaluations given for the exercises.”

“A practical , visual and engaging workshop.”

“Easy to follow structures with good examples.”

Register:  Eventbrite: Book your place here.